Increased Urbanization
Over the last 70 to 80 years, an unprecedented migration from rural to urban areas has taken place. With millions relocating to ever-expanding cities, the home-life of many is experiencing previously unheard of complexities.
CNN reported that more couples in developing nations are unhappy because of the changing roles brought on by the “modern” lifestyle. Old and new cultures are clashing.
For example, many men in Asia and Africa want their wives to be “progressive” and “modern.” Yet they also want them to be homemakers and wives. Unable to cope with fulfilling both roles, many women are abandoning their marriages and seeking divorces.
The husband’s former role as leader, provider and protector is rapidly diminishing. The wife’s responsibility as homemaker, caregiver and mother has also morphed into that of additional breadwinner to shore up the household budget.
Instead of needing one another as in bygone times, urban home life has, in many instances, become a mere cold business relationship. Husbands and wives may share a home, but not their lives. As traditional male and female roles are increasingly abandoned, it has created confusion on the part of both parties.
Urbanization is just one factor that is creating strain on marriages. There are others.