the people who were given power over others were more likely to make risky choices to act aggressively, to speak rudely, and to behave in ways that made others feel scared and uncomfortable. They were alsomore likey to tease their colleagues.This is why we call it the power paradox.Power is given to people who show an ability to understand , guide , and communicate with others. But , unfortunately , once they become leaders, their power has the potentail to make them rude and indsensitive. In other words, whatpeople respect and want most from leader is often what can be damaged when someone has power.