Another way of being supportive is to allow the children, prior to the procedure, to look in the gift box. While gifts are primarily given to the children who undergo NRMP, siblings occasionally also receive a gift: So, if the patient, who I took a sample from really wanted a sibling, who has been involved and supportive, wants to share something, then I feel, that's OK. It is important that all staff think in the same way about who should get the gifts: It should be the same for everyone so that it is not ‘when you come to this nurse it will be like this and when you come to another nurse’, then it will be like that. Gifts have a dual function, in relation to NRMP: I also believe they are important to me as a caregiver who does this with the child. I mean, after all, however hard I try it will be experienced on many occasions as an injustice.