That's common thought.
Parents always tends to make sure their kids safe and sound in life.
But in my opinion, I would always look at the personality of the person.
Such as you.... You're very responsible to confront the problem and trying hard to deal with it. The problem will no longer exist sooner or later one day.
Once there's another problem comes up in family life, you will deal with it, too. Since no one can guarantee we won't meet any problem in the future.
You have great attitude, Ying.