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Can a mother run away from a father with her child?
am engaged to be married and my fiancee has a son who was just born a few months ago. The mother called him and left him telling him he was no longer allowed to see his son because of me. After a few weeks, she began to talk to him again and threaten him with their son by stating that if he did not come back to her he would never see him again. After she realized her plan was not working, she started dating other men which we found good for her but bad for the son. In one instance she stayed at home with the man and she claims he hit her and threw the baby around. we were not told until weeks later. she also divulged to me that she was not able to pay the bills and had moved hours away where she still was not able to afford it and told us she had left her son in one single diaper that day since she was not able to provide him with diapers. She claims the rash upon him was so horrible she was about to take him to the emergency room. These things continued to happen and a day or so ago we gave her a call again to let her know that we were going to the store and to see if she needed us to send her anything. She has refused to take anything we bought for the child from us multiple times, and refused to give us her new address. but we printed out an ad she had posted asking about how to MAKE my fiancee pay child support. When she had gotten on the phone she complained about how she was broke and had no money yet again to pay the bills with. When we asked for more details we found that the water had been turned off for over a month and she had not been bathing the child AT ALL. once this occurred my fiance and I had to look up answers and come up with nothing.
Today she called and told us that she would NOT give us the address and that if she saw any sign of enforcment around her house that she would move with the child out of state. the questions I need answered are:
1. Can she legally move out of the state with the child?
2. Since no custody has been established between my fiancee and the mother can she legally put a restraining order on him. (his name is on the birth certifercate)
3. Can she take him off of the birth certifercate?
4. What sources can we use to possibly find her address by Mobile number or email?
Mind you these arent the ramblings of some random bitter woman. I am Really concerened with the environment that hes being kept in and the fact that shes using the child to get the things she wants not because she wants to take care of him.