Description
One person acts in an aggressive and pushy way, making unreasonable demands and requiring compliance.
The other person then acts in a kind and friendly way, asking nicely -- and getting compliance.
The good guy (or gal, of course) may apologize for the bad guy, or plead for compliance because the bad guy is being horrible to the good guy too.
You can even do it as one person: be unpleasant and then apologize (you are under such stress) and ask nicely for what you want.