tmr wd prb be mediator.
dun worry abt debts. am in the same boat, possibly worse. heh.
dedicated mom beats irresponsible dad anytime.
u ARE lookg for a job right? so $$ will come in. AND he HAS to support the kids even if he refuses to support u.
we saw the mediator. agreed on terms then saw judge in chambers to review terms and sign. court order given err immed thereafter i think. dun think i had to go back for it.
it was a very bad period for me. please don't think it's the end once u get the court order. my ex delayed payments, lied abt making pymts, generally made things hell when he cld however he cld. all the while spend $$$$$$$ on his mistress(es). not that he is rich. his debt was the same as yours to the banks and he was unemployed. but even if he was rich, he wd not pay just because he wanted me to pay (as if i cld, i was in between jobs then myself) yea he wd say he loves his kids but merely words ... his actions spoke volumes.
sry, tdy is a bad bad day for me. a milestone i hv yet to accept.