These qualities I have come to see as the pillars of every successful relationship and I really thought I should let you know how I feel about these qualities and I believe that if we have the same feeling towards these qualities then we really would make a perfect match for each other,it took me quite sometime to write out all these, you should read and digest them.
1. Communication: this is the most important as being able to talk to each other about anything and everything and keeping no secrets go a long way in creating the Trust and Honesty needed for any relationship to last. I believe that all great things stem from great conversations when it comes to building a stable relationship conversation remains a vital key. Without conversation there is no relationship.
2. Trust: Trust means knowing that when you say, "this stays under the cone of silence" it does. Trust means that we both know, day after day we do EVERYTHING with the best intentions and with our best interests at heart. Trust means I tell you the truth even when it hurts. Trust means that when something just doesn't seem right we say it and fix it because we love one another enough to fix it. Trust means that I've got your back and you've got mine and we help each other do better. It is very important because without it we would always question every move we make and I believe that if we have complete faith and trust in each other we can conquer any obstacles that comes our way.
3. Empathy & Compassion: We should be able to complete each others needs and desires,we should be able to understand the feelings of each other and feel some of the things our partner feel as that would help us understand what we are really going through and that way we can support each other completely.
4. Security: I believe we should feel secure with each other. We should be able to depend on each other for strength and a shoulder to cry on when needed. Sometime we all need someone to give us the strength and support to make us stronger and this shouldn't be one sided.
5. Positive & Respectful attitude towards each other and the common faith that no matter what comes up it will work out as long as we have each other. As for me I respect my woman and would treat her with all the love I have in my heart and all I ask for is that she gives me such respect and love in return too.
6. Collaboration: This essentially means we work together. It’s not just you alone collaboration means we are in the same boat. If the relationship fails we will both suffer the heartbreaks If we are able to build that dream relationship we have always wanted then we will celebrate together. I tell you what I know you tell me what you know and together we can build that solid relationship that is going to make us happy for the rest of our lives.
7. Love: Love is eternal, infinite, and always like itself. It is equal and pure, without violent demonstrations: it is seen with white hairs and is always young in
the heart. It doesn't have to be the head over heels kind of love when we first meet, it may not exist the moment we lay eyes upon one another but it takes time to grow. Love is a very important pillar in the best relationships. With love from both of us comes an unspeakable bond unmentioned understanding a constant desire to remain together and keep working hard no matter the challenge. With love everything is possible.
8. Honesty: Being honest means we say what needs to be said because we know that we will all be something better for knowing it. Being honest means we share our fears,our nervousness… it means we show each other we are human and not perfect. With loving honesty i think the whole world will be changed.
9. Loyalty: When it comes to building a stable relationship loyalty is a virtue which is so important that if loyalty is missing other virtue will lose their values.
Loyalty is a vital part of every successful relationship. Loyalty is a quality i look for in my woman. Loyalty is like a glue which makes us love and trust each other.
10. Romance & Intimacy is key to keeping the emotional and physical bond between two people and being able to be comfortable enough with each other to express our emotions freely and I sure know how to make my woman happy (winks)
11. Having fun with each other as a family and also making sure to have quality time alone – going for a walk, going to the Beach or a Lake, picnics in the park and just being able to relax with each other and not worry about all the normal day to day responsibilities of life. Being able to find true joy and happiness in the
wonderful times we spend together.
Being a hopeless romantic, I believe that True Love is a noble act of self-giving, offering trust, faith, and loyalty. The more we love, the more we lose a part of us, yet we don't become less of who we are; we end up being complete with our loved one. This is because just as food is needed for the body, same way is love needed for the soul. Food strengthens the body while love strengths the soul.I realized We are incomplete without love. Life without Love is like a harp without strings.
In my search for True Love I came to understand that True Love is not just about finding the right person, but also being able to create the right relationship. It's not about how much love we have in the beginning but how much love we build till the end. As a single man seeking a partner i can’t make someone love me, all i can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to you to realize my worth. For we attract people by the qualities we display and we keep them by the qualities we possess. .
So what do you think about my list? Sorry if it’s too lengthy, I believe it’s part of communicating because this remains the only way we can interact and this way we can find out more about each other and get to know each other better. I believe if we are going to spend the rest of our lives together then it's definitely worth it
If we take the time and effort to build a very strong base. It’s a good thing we both got on that site and I hope that we are both patient enough to take the time to get to know each better.