Just as we personalized changing fe

Just as we personalized changing feelings about deficits or problems, so do we personalize changing feelings about assets or goals. Similarly, just as “down” feelings are usually attached to problems, so are “up” feelings, or feelings of happiness, usually attached to goals. Thus, the helpees usually become hopeful for their futures or pleased with having a direction. We continue to ask the empathy question: “How would I feel if I were the helpee?” In personalizing feelings about goals, we may use the format: “ You feel_________ because you are going to .“
(You feel eager because you are going to learn how to interview effectively.”

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Results (Indonesian) 2:

Sama seperti kita pribadi mengubah perasaan tentang defisit atau masalah, sehingga kita personalisasi mengubah perasaan tentang aset atau tujuan. Demikian, seperti perasaan "down" biasanya melekat pada masalah, begitu juga "up" perasaan, atau perasaan kebahagiaan, biasanya menempel pada tujuan. Dengan demikian, helpees biasanya menjadi harapan untuk masa depan mereka atau senang dengan memiliki arah. Kami terus mengajukan pertanyaan empati: "Bagaimana perasaan saya jika saya helpee itu?" Dalam personalisasi perasaan tentang tujuan, kita dapat menggunakan format: ". Anda feel_________ karena Anda akan"
(Anda merasa bersemangat karena Anda akan belajar bagaimana untuk mewawancarai secara efektif. " Helper