Five hours into my new career, I did the only thing I knew how. I walked in, sat down,took Harold's hand, took his wife's hand and just breathed.1:59He said, "It's not good news is it, sonny?"2:02I said, "No."2:03And so we talked and we listened and we shared. And after a while I said, "Harold, what is it that has meaning to you? What is it that you hold sacred?"2:14And he said, "My family."2:17I said, "What do you want to do?"2:19He slapped me on the knee and said, "I want to go fishing.