I just talked to my ideal romantic partner today. We were best friends, then briefly lovers, and, a paranoid bipolar episode on his part ended it. We played a game of total destruction for over a year, and he admitted we both escalated things. We are too much alike ( he noted "unfortunately.") I don't ever remember feeling so alive in a relationship,when it was good. But sadly, he tried to play off a mutual friend against me after talking today, and I don't think he is well enough to be in a good relationship. He is shopping for a coffin. Sad stuff. He tried to destroy me, and I've been holding back.Take home is you can't always choose that person who resonates In perfectly pitch.