Good Morning, my Dear!
Yes, it is really impressing that we are creating good feelings for each other every day. It makes you and me feel good and safe, and that may be one big milestone on our way to our true loving and everlasting engagement.
Dear, today I will try to answer your questions step by step. You worked so hard to write down your questions and I honestly want to help you (and me) with my answers.
If we love each other and I'm ready to marry you and then I will have to move to live with you or not?
Dear Duangjai, if we love each other and if we get married, then sure I want us to live together. And we definitely need to move to a HOME!!!
and if I'm stay with you at German. You want me to work or not? Because I Thinking when I married with you. I want a good wife for you and ask you to please understand I need to get to know your thoughts to decide on this.
Well, every family needs to have money, right!?! I am working for the government and you may say that being a teacher is a very good job in Germany. So I think it would be good if I keep my job, so we always have enough money. But to do so we need to live here in Germany for the first years. The good thing also is, that we would have a house here already. If we later want to move to Thailand, well, then we can do.
I used to think if I was working, but I had to leave work because I wanted to have a great time with my husband and lovely kids, because I want to take care of my husband and a kids. I would like to have a warm and happy family.
And honestly, my love, I want you to stay at home! I want you to be the boss in our house, to be our home-manager, and to take care of the kid(s)! So I am a "little" boss in school and you will be the manager of our home. I really can imagine this warm feeling, that there will be somebody waiting for me when I come back home from work! Dear, this is something I dream of already for a long time. Would that be ok for you?
we will have to learn the habit of mind, that we will be compatible or not and more importantly.
Yes, my dear, you are right! We need to know what we think and we must be sure that our ideas and our desires are compatible. I fully understand you and I fully agree, because that is important for me, too!
I know I am much older now and I want to married and I don't want to the divorce. I need to decide carefully with a love that is about to occur.
Again, my dear, this is the same for you and me! I am also older now, and this time might be my last chance. So I also want to be sure as much as I can, that you and I would be the perfect match. And so it is ok that we both are carefully looking and checking, before we will come to a final decision. And believe me, I don't have time enough to live with a wrong partner again - no, my dear Duangjai, this time I need to find the right one. And I hope that this will be YOU!
Many things we can discuss, and we also may adjust things that may not be perfect - important is that we are standing together hand in hand on the ground, that we have a strong fundament which we may call our LOVE and FAMILY. And my grandmother always told me, that the most important thing for a husband and his wife is to talk to each other!!!
Duangjai, my dear, hope that my answers and my thoughts can help you a little bit. Hope that we will be compatible already for a lot of ideas and visions!?! And if you want to know, what I want to do now, then please double click on the graphic that I will attach!!!
Miss you, too, and wait for you!!! Fondly, Hajo
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