Be more aware. Negative thinking is often an excuse to live in a rut, stay on autopilot and to stop really seeing and experiencing the world and other beings. It's a form of creating a shield around oneself and shutting down on being present and is mentally lazy. By forcing yourself to notice people, listen attentively, feel the things happening to you with grace and care and to remain aware of what is happening, you'll find that it's much more enjoyable to be positive. Here's how being more aware can make your life more positive: •You'll be better able to recognize turtle behavior (trying to escape back into your shell) and be gentle with yourself rather than beating yourself up for mistakes –– for example, if you're just tired and need a break, you'll learn to understand your body and take a rest instead of thinking you're slow or lazy.
•Consider taking up meditation as a way to center yourself and learn excellent focus. By meditating every day for 10 to 20 minutes at a time that's convenient for you, you can increase your awareness of self and the present, helping you to corral the stinking thinking with greater consciousness.
•Try taking a yoga class. Yoga can also help you become more aware of the world as you get in touch with your breathing.[