when the female is angry or upset the man has to listen, shut up and be left out in the cold untill she has thought things through. When the female is happy the man has to shut up again to keep her happy and can not explain or express feelings. The female is not interested, her needs only are the ones that matter. You would apear to have no trust in me at all, you ask a lot of questions that lead no where except to find a reason to argue or be judgemental. Yes ui have a drink but cannot sit around this appartment every day waiting for something. You want or need to go so I will stop here.